Sex with a Cancer can feel like a deeply powerful experience. They are the masters when it comes to emotional connection and great sex. However, not everyone feels this way about sex with them.If you feel your Cancer partner is not really interested in you and they’re just using you for their physical needs, then this post is for you.
I’m going to resolve your confusion and reveal the 10 major signs that a Cancer might be using you for sex and what to do if it happens.
But before we get down to the brass tacks, let us know if you are dating a Cancerian in the comment section below…
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10. Emotionally Closed-off
When you first start dating a Cancer, they’ll probably seem like they’re totally open and available. But as the relationship progresses, they'll start to get more and more reclusive. They’ll pull away and start keeping you at arm’s distance.
This happens because they don’t want to get emotionally attached to you. They don’t want you to feel a deep connection with them. It is because they are using you merely for sex. Cancerians feel the need to be emotionally open only for those that they are really interested in or like a lot.
So, if your Cancerian partner is emotionally closed, it is a big red flag.
9. No Romance
If a Cancer isn’t into you in a serious way, they won’t bother with the little romantic gestures that make a relationship so wonderful. But if they’re into you, they’ll be doing these things all the time.
Another sign that shows that a Cancerian is just using you for sexual needs is that they show no PDA ever. They show you affection only when you are alone with them at home.
8. Hard to Get in Touch With
A Cancer will be pretty hard to get in touch with when they are not serious in the relationship.
Even though they’re not a very social sign, and aren’t very comfortable with putting themselves out there, they are always there for their loved ones, especially their partners.
If you have to try a million times to get them to answer you, we have bad news for you… they’re not interested in the real you.
If they’re interested in dating you, you’ll be able to get in touch with them pretty easily. If they’re not interested, getting in touch with them will be harder than pulling out a cactus with your bare hands.
They just don’t want to damage the physical relationship and want to take advantage of you. It is why it is important to notice such red flags before it’s too late.
7. Always On The Phone
Cancer is ruled by the moon. That means they’re very intuitive and are in tune with their emotions and the emotions of others. They are the kind of people who love spending quality time with their partners.
So, if your Cancerian partner keeps all their attention on you when you are together and they make sure you have a good time, it means they are really interested in you.
But if the opposite happens, it is a red flag.
If your Cancerian partner is always on his or her phone even when you two are having a conversation, it means they don't find you interesting or you are not important to them.
It means they are just there as a formality of a relationship but are not interested in spending some quality time together.
6. You Are Not In Their Future Plans
Cancerians always think ahead. They are always thinking about building a future with their partner and making plans for the two of them. They want to create a home together and have a family.
If your partner discusses these plans with you, it is evident they think you are the one. But if you’re not in those plans, it means they don’t see you as a long-term partner. They are only using you for sex for the time being.
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5. You've never met the family
Cancer is very family-oriented. They want a partner who understands their family and respects them. They won’t even consider dating a person who doesn’t understand their family, or who doesn’t want to spend time with them.
They are the quickest to introduce their partner to their family. But only when they are truly interested in you.
If you’ve only met each other’s friends, and you’ve never met their family, they’re probably not ready to date you seriously. They don’t want to date you; they just want to hook up. It is a big red flag that you should not miss.
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4. You Don't Feel Like a Priority
Being in a relationship is all about being loved and cared for and feeling important. A Cancer who truly likes you will make sure you feel all these emotions.
But if a Cancer is using you for sex, they will not make you their priority. They will cancel dates, forget important days, don’t call or text the whole day. All these are tiny signs that show a Cancer is not really serious with you.
3. Flaky
Cancers are not flaky. They try their best to keep their promises and show up on dates they plan with their partner.
But if you’re dating a Cancer, and they’re always flaking out on you, it’s because they don’t want to spend time with you. They’re letting you down easy. It means they just want to meet you for their physical needs and do not want to spend any time with you other than that.
2. Does Not Invite You Over
Cancer is a very home-oriented sign. They like to stay at home, and relax, and get cozy with a good book. They feel even more relaxed and comfortable when they are with their partner at home.
However, if they don’t invite you over to their place, it’s probably because they’re not ready to date you seriously. They just want to hook up and use you for sex.
1. Not Loyal
Cancer is a very loyal sign. They’re fiercely loyal to those they love. But if they’re not loyal to you, it means they don’t love you. They might care about you, and they might want to date you, but they don’t love you. They are just using you.
In this scenario, cheating is not limited to just sleeping with some other person. It also includes having eyes on other people or flirting with other people with the wrong intentions.
If your Cancerian partner is not being loyal to you, you need to end the relationship as soon as possible. They’re not someone you want to be dating.
So, guys, these were the 10 obvious signs that show a Cancer is using you for sex.Have you ever dated a Cancer? Have you noticed any of these signs before in your partner? Share your experience with us in the comment section below.
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